The Bitter Wife

Good morning and welcome in everybody. Today, we are going to take a look at a passage of scripture, but before we do that I wanted to tell you a little story.

Many years ago, I was visiting with a friend’s wife and asked her how she felt about matters concerning divorce. She said that she would never divorce her husband no matter what happened between them. So I went on to ask her why? She told me that there was no way that she would ever put her children through what she had to go through when she grew up. She went on to explain that she had been raised at a very young age without her dad. This was because one day her mother decided to take her and the other children and run off and divorce him. She told me that she loved her dad very much and she knew that he felt the same way towards her, but she could still remember looking out the back of the car window as they drove away from home. It was the last time that she ever saw him again. At that moment, she broke down into tears, traumatized by the events that took place in her life which had left scars in her mind and in her heart. A few minutes later, she went on to tell me that the one that she held ultimately responsible for her painful childhood was not her dad, it was her mother. 

This reminds me of the Christian Life. 

Divorce is one of the most wretched and evil things that a parent can do to a child. It is completely self-centered and places the needs of the parent, above and beyond the emotional needs of these precious little ones.

1 Corinthians 7:10-11 (KJB)  And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.

When somebody divorces their spouse for whatever the reason, they commit emotional child abuse against these little ones, who were never meant to bear such things. People try to justify divorce for many different different reasons, but when it comes down to it, choosing to leave a marriage is emotionally damaging to the hearts of one’s own children. Unlike committing a crime against somebody that you might not know, this is doing evil towards somebody who is your own child!  A parent who puts forth paperwork to divorce their spouse should automatically lose all rights to the children, which would make them think twice before committing such a wicked deed. At the same time, it  would put their priorities straight about who is the most important in a marriage; it’s the children. 

It is forbidden for a woman who professes to follow Christ to leave her husband for any reason, but in this extremely wicked age, women who are filled up with the spirit of Jezebel have risen up and usurped over men, including their own husbands. Take it from somebody who knows, because I have had to endure the same types of things at the hands of a rebellious wife and wicked relatives who supported her insubordination. Once a wife becomes consumed with such bitterness, they will even attempt to alienate a child from an ongoing relationship with a loving and compassionate dad, and women who do such things to these precious children are some of the most evil people on the face of the Earth. As I have said many times before, these activities amount to heartless and bitter acts of emotional abuse towards children, who need love and stability within the family household. 

When my first child was born I commanded my wife to take a picture or video each day of my children, and when she took off with my little ones, she took them all, twelve years worth of memories. As I have said recently, all five of my children were born on my bed and I delivered them from the womb. I saw their first breath, which is something that remains to this day, one of the most beautiful things that I have ever seen in my life. I even tied off their umbilical cords and when they were ready, I presented them to their mother. When they were old enough, I baptized each one of them, and educated them in the teachings of scripture. I regularly gave my wife and children Holy Communion, right up until a few days before she betrayed me. Even though I commanded her not to do this, and made numerous attempts to convince her to repent of it, it was far too late, because she followed the bidding of her own bitter and stubborn heart rather than the will of Christ Jesus. 

When I was at work, she even went through the effort to have my little ones write goodbye letters to me before they left, which is one of the most perverted and sick things that I could ever imagine a woman doing to little children. Some of them could barely even write their name, and obviously needed some assistance in completing them. But this is what happens when somebody renounces their faith. She knew exactly what she was doing and that it was completely outside of the will of God, but she did it anyway. It’s impossible when people commit willful sin such as this, to bring them to a place of repentance, for their have fallen from grace and are outside of God’s mercy. 

Hebrews 6:4-6 (KJB)  For it is impossible for those who were once enlightened, and have tasted of the heavenly gift, and were made partakers of the Holy Ghost, and have tasted the good word of God, and the powers of the world to come, If they shall fall away, to renew them again unto repentance; seeing they crucify to themselves the Son of God afresh, and put him to an open shame.

Within a month, she had turned away from everything that she had been taught. She even got my own children involved with pagan activities and other false religious practices that they had never participated in before, because they went against the teachings of scripture. She began living in fornication in open view of my own children with some stranger who himself had been convicted of child sexual issues. The last text that I received from her was completely laden with filth, perverted foul language, and described in great length her own sexually immoral and willful promiscuous activities. I knew at that point that there was nothing I could ever do to help her, and it was the last time I ever spoke to her again. The things that came out of her mouth that day were so evil and malicious that any similarity to the person that she once was, had been completely destroyed. It wasn’t her anymore, and she had become completely consumed by the devil. Even before we were baptized into the faith, I had never heard her speak like that before, and that text message was so devastating, that I kept it as a reminder of what happens to a person when they turn away from their faith. The woman that I had loved and cared for so deeply had completely walked away from the teachings of our faith, and the children in her own mind were left by the wayside as collateral damage. But this is what happens when you reject the will of God, just as prophesied by the Apostle Peter. 

2 Peter 2:20-22 (KJB)  For if after they have escaped the pollutions of the world through the knowledge of the Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, they are again entangled therein, and overcome, the latter end is worse with them than the beginning. For it had been better for them not to have known the way of righteousness, than, after they have known it, to turn from the holy commandment delivered unto them. But it is happened unto them according to the true proverb, The dog is turned to his own vomit again; and the sow that was washed to her wallowing in the mire.

When I first met my wife, I loved her more deeply than any woman that I had ever known, and to say anything else would be an outright lie. In fact, shortly after we first met, we discovered that her last name actually contained the initials of my name, something that amazed both of us at the rare chances of that actually happening. I cared for her so dearly that when I first became a believer I wanted to teach her the things of scripture so that she could become pleasing to God and that both of us could be in heaven together someday. 

I have numerous letters that she wrote, even as recently as a few years before she left, explaining how sincerely in love she was with me and how thankful she was to be my wife. But when she willfully turned away from the teachings of our faith and walked off on our marriage, she sent me some brand new letters, telling me that she had never loved me the entire length of our marriage. The most shocking thing of all is that she actually believed it! But I knew that this is what happens when you willfully choose to turn away from the knowledge of God’s will. At that point, God will cause them to believe a lie, and they will be damned because they don’t believe the truth anymore.

Over the years there have been certain relatives that I had nothing to do with, because they became busybodies in my home, and attempted to usurp my leadership in my own house! These same people became busybodies in my family once again, and supported and encouraged my wife to depart her marriage and go completely against the will of God. These are the same activities that the devil was involved with in regards to Eve in the Garden of Eden. But seducing people to go against God’s will, and encouraging them to go against an established conscience, will face a greater punishment at Judgment Day than others, especially those who cause these little ones to offend who have been raised in the teaching scripture. 

I have always loved each one of my children because just as I brought them from the womb, I brought them out of the waters of baptism, and instructed them in the knowledge of God. Christian women are supposed to teach their girls how to love their husbands, not to divorce them, which is why leaving a husband is the manifestation of a complete failure of Charity towards others. Our greatest love must always remain our precious Lord Jesus Christ, because even though we care for others, we are not always going to be loved by them. I loved my wife dearly, but the person she has become is no longer the person that she once was. Although we can give others the teachings of scripture, we can’t live their lives for them. I gave her Holy Communion for many years, and educated her in the teachings of her faith, and despite my warnings, she returned to the world that we both left out of faithfulness to Christ Jesus. I don’t know if anybody will ever really understand my heartbreak for her, but not everybody is going to endure in the Christian Life, and many times it will be the ones that you care about the most.

So be forewarned, that those who willfully choose the path of rebellion against the will of God, are going to have it much worse than they ever had it before, which is a just punishment for every woman who chooses to rebel against her husband, and slips into the walking boots, of……

 ……The Bitter Wife

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